Losing Feels Addictive
Mason O'Donnell
| 03-06-2025

·
Okay, be honest—have you ever thrown your controller or smacked your desk after losing a game for the tenth time in a row… only to click "Play Again" five seconds later? 😅
Because same. There's something so weirdly addictive about losing in games, and I've totally been there.
The rage is real, but...
Let's talk about Overcooked, Apex Legends, and my current obsession: Fall Guys. These games destroy me. Like, completely. I fail miserably, fall off platforms, or get roasted by my teammates. But instead of quitting, I say, "Just one more." Every. Single. Time.
It's like my brain refuses to accept defeat. Instead of walking away, it whispers, "You can beat this. You almost had it." And boom, I'm back in the game, ready to lose again 😭.
Why we can't stop 🤔
So here's what I think is really going on. Every time we lose, our brain gets this little spark of challenge. It wants to fix it. It's not just about winning—it's about getting better, proving something to yourself.
And when we almost win? That's the worst (but also the best). That tiny bit of progress keeps us hooked. Like, if I made it to Top 5 this round, maybe next time I'll win. That little taste of victory pulls us back in.
The power of the "almost"
That "almost" moment is what makes losing feel... weirdly fun? It's frustrating, but also kind of exciting. Like, it becomes a personal mission. You're not just playing a game—you're chasing redemption 😤.
That's how I ended up staying up till 2AM trying to clear one level in Celeste. I failed more than 100 times, no joke. But when I finally made it? That win felt earned, and I couldn't stop smiling.
We're in this together 🎮
So hey, if you're reading this while rage-restarting a level or rage-queuing another match—you're not alone. I get you. We've all been there. That endless loop of losing, learning, retrying… it's part of the fun.
Now I wanna know—what's that one game that keeps pulling you back in no matter how many times you lose? Drop it in the comments or DM me. Let's cry (and laugh) about it together 😆💬